Do you want to talk to big booty Judy, your gym crush cutie, but don’t know how to go about it? Well, you’ve come to the right place. We’re going to give you a few tips on how to hit on girls at the gym without being a giant douche about it.
Many guys go to the gym with their peacock feathers spread, their lips flappin’, and their eyeballs practically buggin’ out as they scope out chicks. This is a huge no-no. Girls don’t react positively to “gym creeps.” And that’s exactly what you’ll be if you take that approach.
Instead, follow these simple tips and you might just find yourself doing a different kind of workout after the gym.
Tips For Hitting On Girls At The Gym
4. Don’t Interrupt Her Workout
This is the first and most egregious error many guys make in the gym. They feel like they must make a move as soon as possible or they’ll miss their chance. Unfortunately, hitting on a girl while she’s working out is worse than just missing the chance at talking to her.
Women don’t like to be bothered, especially when they’re doing something sweaty and uncomfortable in public. Most likely she doesn’t feel pretty at the moment, and her focus surely isn’t on some creepy knob goblin who thinks it’s acceptable to hit on girls mid-set.
You’ll be dismissed quicker than how long it takes you to decide to skip leg day.
The key to talking to women at the gym non-creepily, assuming they haven’t come up to you first, is to catch them after they’re done working out. Ideally, you want to catch them off to the side somewhere in a more private setting.
Of course, this can be pretty tricky to time. Especially when you don’t want to get caught staring as you wait for her to get done exercising.
Another solid way to initiate conversation is to catch her between sets. But this must be done organically. Meaning, you catch her at the water fountain, grabbing a fresh training towel, the drink machine, stretching area, etc.
The important thing to remember is, DO NOT INTERRUPT HER WORKOUT.
3. Workout First
Hey, here’s a novel idea. How about you concentrate on your f@*king workout first? You know, the whole reason you’re at the gym in the first place? To put things mildly, if you’re only at the gym to hit on girls, no advice in the world will help you. You’re a tool. Don’t be that guy.
So, the right move would be to train your ass off like you planned. Hopefully, your gym crush notices your hard work and might even want to talk to you when you’re done. And chances are good that if you’re in the gym busting your meat and potatoes, she’ll have noticed you just like you’ve noticed her.
Now that’s something you can work with.